I am hoping that more experienced posters can help me with their definition of letting go. My wife is still with her A partner, has moved into her own house, and filed for divorce. She is not interested in counseling or reconciliation. I am staying dark, GAL, and working on my issues. I don't want D, but it looks inevitable. How does one "let go" without seeming uncaring or completely closing door?

Newbie needing advice


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Me M51
WW F46
T 17 yrs
M 16 yrs
9 children D29 D27 D26 S24 S24 S19 S19 niece18 S17
8 grandchildren
ILYBINILWY: 12/15/14
I discover PA 12/31/14
She files D: 1/9/15
She moves out 3/2/15
D papers served 3/18/15