Good for you Raliced - ponder for a day then back to shrugging - perfect! This is what I strive towards - don't always manage it....

I'll be interested to see how things go. And as you say, it's a positive chink perhaps...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus