Glad you enjoyed the Ceroc and are feeling better about the waiting for your H to give an answer (don't).
Your situation reminded me of a particular song but my public shame resistance prevents me from saying which one.
I hope you don't mind but I want to offer a male perspective (well mine anyway) on the whole dressing provocatively thing in part because it was one if my complaints (and upset me to see my W dressing for OM)
Its a male ego thing, its not so much about women dressing provocatively its about making the effort to show that you want your H - men connect through sex and the better the sex the better the connection. When a wife won't make the effort its like a big neon sign that says to the H 'you're not worth it'
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
