Tenbook, it would be very risky for you to pull up roots and follow her to another town. She says she doesn't love you, and is upfront that she won't give up OM. You mights as well keep your home and stay where you have friends, family, work, etc.
Why follow after a WW who doesn't love you? If she changes her mind, she'll know how to find you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
