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My W has just called three times in quick succession. I ignored all three calls. Now she has just texted saying 'call me please'

what do you think I should do? She is at work later and so it could just be an inquiry as to whether I'd mind the kids. She could text to ask that though, surely?

I've been reading on various threads (with the advice mostly coming from starksy) about maintaining intel on W without revealing the source. I decided to check her youtube history again - she has been looking at a lot of strange sexual content recently (huge p*nis, threesomes etc). The main thing that stands out however is that she has been looking at a specific car (honda of some type). This was about 9-10pm last night, so probably after she had finished work. My W doesn't drive and knows nothing about cars. OM apparently has a clapped out old car and (mind reading, I know) so it could be they were together and discussing him getting a new one.

she has just texted again this second saying 'important'

I don't want to seem available all the time. I guess if it was important she could text what it was that is so important.

edit: she just called my mobile again - I ignored it. Then the house phone went (probably her too) - I ignored it.

Any suggestions on what to say when I do speak to her? She is going to ask why I didn't answer. I could say I was busy. When she asks doing what should I answer vaguely (I've been out, I was busy etc) or say none of your business, or something else?