Good for you with the perspective. BTW - your W still sounds pretty enmeshed with OM. I would treat it as very much an ongoing R on her part if she's talking about 'friendship' in the present sense...
Glad you had a great day with your kids!
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus