Hi Raliced. Pleased to hear that. And as you say - who knows, but time will tell for sure. Your BD is similar to mine, and 9 months or so often seems to be a time when things can start to shift. Who knows the bliss bubble may have burst...

Equally, it may not be that and you already know to keep expectations at zero. He could want to be closer to his kids and is moving OW back closer to town. Hopefully not, but it's a possibility - hence the zero advice. Note it, go Hmm? for a day - and then keep the forward momentum going. If H wants to catch you up, he'll let you know for sure.

Pleased for you if it is a tiny sign of movement in the right direction though...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus