Errod, V has already done exactly what I was going to suggest....

Okay, let's have the specifics with these goals. What are you going to do by when and how often. And which of those are going to be this week, and so on...

But V has all the bases covered already!

BTW, I think if you don't want to talk to your W, you may just want to say you're busy for the rest of the day. Keep it light - hey, we'll need to do this another time. I've got a few things on today....and so on. Rather than telling her 'we've spoken enough.' If you wouldn't receive that well from her, she probably isn't going to from you either.

Looking forward to hearing how you put your goals into action Errod....:-)

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