Why is it so easy to read about another situation and know what to do but so difficult when it's your own. (talking about me not you!)

Do not text her again. As far as how she thinks, feels or acts, you can not control her. She doesn't trust you? There is nothing that YOU can do to change that. What you can do is act the way you know is right and be trustworthy. As much as it [censored] she is unable to treat you like you want her to right now, YOU however, can treat her the way you want to be treated and be the better person. In the end, regardless of the outcome, you have to live with yourself and you will now you did the best you could do.

As for the crying...who knows, maybe she stubbed her toe!

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since