I wonder if my H is stalking me in a very true to his style, indirect way.

V, will go looking for the book. M, I have been transparent.

Tonight, a friend had her launch party for a novel she's written, all expenses paid by her publisher. I was on my way and a friend called to let me known H was there, all nonchalant and jovial, drinking a beer, shaking hands with everyone he could. WTF. These are my friends. This particular author - he's made fun of her. Why would he be there. My friend said H followed him around the party: friend, you don't look so well...H, I do not feel well...friend, are you ok? Not really, H, I think I need to go...Friend called me to warm me.

WTF is this. Friend said he believes H means to harm me, psychologically, emotionally, however he can.

He certainly has no direct desire to meet up with, plead his case.

WHY would he do this? These are my friends, not his.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.