Originally Posted By: errod


Personal goals for myself
1. Be the best father I can be
what does best mean to you exactly? Which activities? By when? How will you know you are the best?
2. Get my real estate gig off the ground and become the best I can be at it.
how will you provide a target? Is this planned? Do you intend to achieve x sales by June?
3. Find some friends to hang out with
Existing friends? Will you ring them? New friends? Which activities? What is hanging out, coffee, film, making macrame?
4. Stop making my W my priority.
far too general and not specific
5. Just be happy again.
OK so will that mean you travel to Disney next year?
6. Find some hobbies that involve other people and not be such a loner.
which clubs, associations, volunteering, by when. What are the first steps? Once a week?
7. Run a 10k
by joining a running club next week? Going to a gym? Using the treadmill? Have you signed up for a fun run for charity?



Erodd these are laudable, a starter for 10 although rather non specific. Can you make them less general? Goals need to be achievable, specific and measurable.

What would be fun to try new things.

V does her goals on excel spreadsheets with squillions (exaggeration) of mini steps.

For example: go Ceroc a minimum of once a week on a Sunday and take a set of classes once a month with 2 weekenders a year.
Lose 2 lbs a month by attending boot camp 3 times a week.
Attend the sauna twice a month.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 03/29/15 01:01 AM.
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