I hear you as far as being civilised...at the end of the day we have to live in our skin and look ourselves in the mirror.. I arrived home after Christmas to find divorce papers had been delivered Christmas Eve.. I took a big breath
then he rang to tell me he was taking his lover to Australia and planned to visit my family with her. As I had kept the details of our problems from them I felt I should at least inform them of all that was happening. He did not like that.. I tried to keep it calm and factual
but Luke I think we can only tell ourselves we did the best we could for the best reasons
no one else will
BTW ran my first half marathon 2 hours 8 min.. I was thrilled..