Newbie seeking some experienced advice

[nick77]

Hi sandi, I did tell her yesterday and that's what led to our fight. I told her in the afternoon because I couldn't keep to myself any longer and she said she was going to talk to him last night. Instead she went to dinner with friends. I reached out to her at 9pm to see when she wanted me to drop him off and she told me that she wasn't going to be home for awhile and if I needed to I should drop him off at her parents. I was furious and called her every type of bad mother I could think of.
We talked today and we're going to make an appointment for him to talk to someone.