I've been trying to ignore this but I think I need some feedback.
STBX today got a call from a major bank saying someone was trying to fraudulently open a credit card in his name. He texted me to ask if it was me.
This is not the first time he has accused me of passive-aggressively taking revenge on him in that manner. He has received notification of accounts on things like Hep-C clinics, etc., and either accuses me directly of doing it or posts it on Facebook and wonders who "the joker" is.
Duh. I'm not passive-aggressive, I do things like throw him out of the house and tell him I hate him in a crowded Starbucks. I'm active-aggressive when I'm moving in that direction.
And JUST YESTERDAY I asked him to transfer my cell phone back into my name and told him I wanted to be as separate from him as possible. Why the H would I open a credit card fraudulently???
Do I tell him I find it insulting or do I just let my "wasn't me" stand?
It just occurred to me... Wonder if it was one of his Tinder hookups but it's easier to blame the STB ex-wife because admitting a Tinder lady could be the culprit would force him to admit the Flaw In The Plan?
Or maybe it was just a computer breach.
Last edited by Maybell; 03/28/1509:45 PM.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
