How was your daughter? Was she upset you crashed her movie watching? Hopefully you didn't make a big deal about it in front of her. It would be hilarious if you sat down in-between the two of them and just watched the movie. Like it was no big deal. I know it's a big deal, but unless you ship her off to a convent, boys will be around.
Talk to her one on one. When she's visiting you. Talk to W about it one on one to. Don't focus on you and W. It's all about the D14. I think it's wise to assume that she's not doing bad things. You want her to hear you and respect what you say. I think people listen better when they're not playing defense. Pills don't work all the time and they don't stop STDs. Kids don't seem to grasp that. I know I didn't.
My D is only 4, so what I wrote above is how I hope to handle it when I walk in and she's watching a movie with senior. However, I won't be walking into the ex's house in 10 years. Which reminds me...
Why did you go over there? Stay away. Driving by her house isn't DBing, walking inside.. definitely not DBing. I know it's hard, I have to fight it all the time. The more you fight the urge to contact, drive by, burst in, etc. the easier it gets.
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