Don't jump the gun about the next person. That will come when it's time.
How honest were you with your IC? Would she recognize the situation you described? Did you pull your punches with her or pack them here?
But I still wonder... What made you keep taking him back? We've heard a lot of screaming matches but even here we don't here of physical events like the ones you describe very often. Why did you put up with that after only four months?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15