Old Dog seeks new trick 11

[Maybell]

Well, yes, what everyone else says... Apologize for the language and find better outlets for the future.

So, her S15 just had major surgery and she's leaving for 48 hrs with the family's only car???? I'd be cussing too.

The thing is, OD, you've had a TON of guidance here about getting space and caring for yourself so you can be less reactive. You resist and resist a LOT. If you fought good advice less and practiced a little less Eeyore, this would not have happened.

Sometimes I feel like you don't see the big picture. Your W is behaving TERRIBLY and no one here will defend her appalling choices. But to the extent she's taking advantage of you (a whole, whole lot), you're permitting a lot of it. It's like you go into that house hoping that this time something will be different but instead it just gets a step worse and you're surprised.

Are you following Sandi's WW threads? You should go back and read every word of those. They are gold. What you're trying is not working. Back away from the cheeseless tunnel and rethink your options.