Guide for LBH who has a Wayward Wife

[sandi2]

That means a lot to me, Rick. No, I am not reliving it. Sometimes when I share, I do get somewhat emotional, b/c I will forever regret that period in my life and the horrible pain I caused my H. His health really plummeted and has continued to get worse. I can't help but feel responsible in part. Maybe that is my guilt, IDK.

I have never felt the need to stay on the board due to guilt ot any negative feelings. It was my counsel and guide, originally, b/c my H would not go to MC with me. I've learned a lot from the heart broken people on the DB board, and especially the betrayed H's who told me their feelings, whereas, my own H would not open up and talk about his. In fact, it was in reading their personal sharing that helped me to feel remorse for my actions. I was able to see what their WW's had done to them, and knew that is what my H experienced.

it was a therapy for me. At times, I suppose it still is. I do have a desire to pay forward a little of the help I received in those dark days for me.

You have been a source of encouragement for me, Rick. Thank you.