So H, his friend and D13 went out on the boat fishing today. H asked if I wanted to go (I really did) I said I would love to but have things to do around the house. I think that is the first time I've said no to an invite....not that I get a ton.

So this is probably one of H's closest friends, they've know each other since 84 and I'm not sure he even knows what is going on. H is still sleeping in the other room which I would think he thinks is weird. I've pretty much left them alone to hang out, last night I went in the garage with them for a little bit. We were talking about boating and cruises, friend asked if we've ever been on a cruises. I made the comment that we've talked about going but never have, friend replies that it would probably be easy for "us" living where we live.

My sister said something along the lines of it being hard to tell people about it when you're not convinced, or telling people would make it real.

Oh well, I'm guessing anyway and again have not control over what he does.

Going to finish getting my desk together and get the office situated and the house cleaned up before I have a house full again.

Have a great weekend everybody!

Last edited by lost18; 03/28/15 02:05 PM.

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since