DO NOT MOVE OUT. If she wants to be apart, SHE can move! She's the one having the affair and wanting to end the marriage!

There are very few topics on DB that garner near-100% consensus. This is one of them.

Knock off the "woe is me" crap and LEAD YOUR FAMILY. Your kids need a hero, and it's obviously not going to be your wife right now.

Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)