Sandi I just want to give you kuddos for this thread. Sharing your story in this way is incredible. You are opening up so many eyes. I think you were the 1st person who posted to me 4 years ago. My exw as far as I know didnt have OM. She fell in love with the equine world. Hard. As I type this i remember the exact words you said to me. And you were so very correct.

The line about the man being the "betrayed" is so powerful. It really puts things into perspective. And i hope you are not reliving those painful days. You are very valuable here.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden