Thank you so much for these posts sandi2.
I don't know if you've seen my posts but I have what I've now identified as a wayward h who is in an ea. I'm struggling learning detachment at the moment and trying to get a plan together..
I'm not sure his a is because of a physical attraction, he still tells me he finds me very attractive and avoids sleeping in the same bed as me or he will want sex.
He seems confused and dillusional to me.
Have you any advice on how I can get him back? I need a plan. I've tried GAL and continue to do that. I can't go completely dark as we live together (although he's never home) and we have a young baby


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16