For the LBH who has a WW Part 3

[Mozza]

Great discussion on fighting for the M or not and how. I'll put my question out there once more because it was slightly different.

sandi2- Again, wow. I've a question. In your sitch, did you ever leave your H or intended to? I'm asking because the WW of many LBH here have admitted to the affair and left the marital home. For them, it's not a matter of getting a little fulfillment on the side, but of giving up on their H and changing partner altogether. I wonder if it makes a difference in how we should approach the sitches or if it's just splitting hair.

I'd really like to have the clarification about what sandi2 did or intended to do. Also, I'm not really asking about once the person has left. I'm asking if there is a difference in how we approach the sitch when the WW just wants a secret A and when she wants to replace the H. Sandi2 talks about the WW realizing the wrong she's doing, which is clear for a secret A, but I'm not sure if there is such a path for a WW who wants to leave the M altogether. Clearer? Thanks!