Wonka, Starsky, y'all are the greatest! That list Wonka wrote looks like a guide made for the LBSLBHs. Hummm, has a ring to it. Since this thread is about to close, maybe we can start a new one with that title. "Guide for the LBH who has a WW".
The invitation is open to all who have questions or advice.
I think the DB approach for LBWs should differ slightly from the LBHs. Because the female and male dynamic is quite different.
Case in point.
For WAWs, the connection to the OM is emotional.
For WAHs, the connection is visual and sexual.
For DBing to be successful, the LBH needs to come down HARD on the WAW because the emotional allure is like a powerful riptide tearing her and the M asunder.
For DBing to be successful, the LBW needs to re-attract her WAH for men really like the chase and are visually-oriented.
Generally, your "Sandi's Rules" list applies to both sets of LBSes equally irrespective of the situation: IA, EA, PA, MLC.
