I suppose I am changing. Not so long ago I would not have withstood such a tongue lashing from her without resorting to being verbally nasty back at her. I didn't do that this time and now I think about that, that's a massive 180 on my part.
I understand wiping out gains through last minute backsliding. In the face of intense anger and bitterness from W I am getting better - but until I cut out the tears and reasoning with her then it's not good enough. Next encounter should be tomorrow morning and should be brief. No chance of R talk, and no desire from me to do so anyway.
BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6