Quick question for you all: Last time I saw H he said "people don't change""we're not compatible." While I was able to write it off in my own mind (non of what they say), I struggled to find the right words to respond. Any thoughts on that (in case he says it again)?
How about "How come we grew apart then?"
But there is nothing to say. He's not saying this because he thinks so but because it is serving his purpose. He did not have a long think about whether people change, he had an urge to leave and then built up a rationale to justify it. Should you give him any opposition, he'll likely dig in his heels. I would just validate, "Yes, I see what you mean". That should surprise him a little. Let him work this idea in his head, let him feel you're letting him go.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.