I will read your post and comment very soon. But for now, PLEASE write in small separate paragraphs so it's easier for us to read.
And understand that while you are on moderation, which is temporary, you will get fewer replies.
But we are here and this is a great place to be, although for a lousy reason.
YES DB can work. It worked a lot better than every other approach I tried and believe me, I tried several.
Keep on keeping on...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016