WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

Wow. I needed to hear that Starsky. Look I think in my situation I was blind to the reality of what was occurring for at least the past six months. I do not have much access to this other group of friends she has been around. I really believed this was just a phase that would blow over in our marriage until the very moment the bomb was dropped. I never imagined she would do what's occurring right now.

I don't even know where to begin the fight. All the wisdom I've gathered on the subject seems to point toward changing oneself.

And to go on the offensive now, isn't that perhaps too little too late?

It appears to me that in my situation I would practically be required to turn to social networking to fight this war.

It would be a huge 180 for me. I have avoided conflict like the plague for a long time.

And of course we are wired differently, that's why I am here because it's time to update the outdated electrical in this place...