Last night she came home claws out, accusing me of trying to turn S8 against her. I calmly explained to her the problems she is having with S8 are not my doing and that I have done no such thing. Further that if she would communicate with me we would not be having any issues with S8 but instead she has continued just as she did before no communication, keeping everything in, and building resentments. I explained to her that this is the same reason our MR has gotten so difficult. That is to say, it how she chooses to handle her feelings that causes us difficulty.
I am dreading tonight and have a potential plan to just get out of the house for the entire weekend and possibly longer. I'm so hurt and torn by her, I wonder if complete detachment removing myself might snap her out of it. Since she will not leave I'm beginning to wonder if I should????
Woooooo!!!!!!!! ROLLER COASTER!!!!!!!!!
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15