WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

I appreciate the "fly without instruments" analogy. You make a very good point, my situation is perhaps a little less precarious than many others. Basically I have protected my finances and assets quite sufficiently already in this situation, and in my state the law will not take kindly for her to make a grab for anything more than I have already *very* generously given her upon our separation. According to what we each brought in to the marriage, and the law in our state, any judge in our district will laugh her out of the courtroom if she tries to take anything that's not hers!

Your advice is kindly received Sir, thank you - I will be mindful of this going forward!