Don't take it personally.

Yes, it's hard but he's operating from his unhealthy place. Don't expect healthy to suddenly emerge like Venus rising from the sea.

Know your boundaries and stick with them.

You've go this.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss