hold on! - 8

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Thanks Sherman and Toots
I agree that this is not a solution that will help - I will still be caught in this web. The information that she found about this type of arrangement states that it is good for the kids and puts all of the burden on the parents. I don't know if this is true and I don't know if it is healthy for them. I could not do this with just 2 residences and 3 is just ridiculous.

I think they need to know that we are two separate parents and though it will impact them, it is reality. Not just another lie.

We did not talk at all last night. We did go to the kids swim banquet as a family, but came home and silence.