You should speak with an attorney about how leaving may be viewed in court as abandoning her and your children. Be aware of the risks involved in leaving.
I already did. I was told that I will be ok as long as I continue to support financially and keep in touch with them.
M 30 W 31 S8 and S6 M 7 T 13 D-Day Mid December 2014 EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014
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