Zues I totally hear and agree with you on not turning our Xs into villains. After all, we were M to them for a reason. Other than the infidelity and walking out (which to me are pretty huge), he's not being a bad guy. He has been there for me in my health issues, is a really good dad, has been financially up front, never spews, is polite when we have schedule conflicts. He's gonna be a great X.
