Originally Posted By: skr4luv
As they say,
doing nothing is also an action.


Only when it is a wise tactic as part of an effective overall strategy.

Your strategy is flawed, and your actions (putting up with an open marriage) are contradicting your words to her ("I will not live in an open marriage"). She has learned to exploit this, and you can expect her to continue to.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)