Newbie needs advice and encouragement

[Kramer]

Well, I sent the email. Here it is; thoughts?

XXX,

I am trying to respond to your divorce petition. While I don't want this divorce, I realize it is for the best under these circumstances and I will be better off because of it. I just want to end this chapter and move forward.

I have not yet retained a lawyer, but I did speak with one. He advised me to talk with you and to negotiate things between us because it is very straightforward.

California law is 50/50 for all assets and debts, and I am agreeable to that. We have already divided property with exception of Expedition. We have agreed to take our own vehicles and student loans. The only thing left to do is split the debts and retirements.

I only have 30 days to respond to your divorce petition, so if you want to work with me on a negotiated settlement, I will need a signed form from you extending that deadline.

There is no hidden agenda here. I am willing to work with you in order to save us each unnecessary lawyer fees. However, I will not accept anything less than 50/50, which is the law. The end result will be the same with or without legal representation. You are a smart person. You know this is true.

Please let me know if you are willing to work together. Time is of the essence, so I will need an answer by March 31.

XXX

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