MrBond, why is it running away, when I do it to come back in order to handle the situation more effectively?

If I don't take that step and just stay here, I'll probably go crazy. Taking care of the kids, working in a stressfull environment, no rest, no friends to talk to, and going to sleep every night knowing my W is having sex with the OM. This is no place to GAL.

I think the change of environment will work like therapy. It will be much easier to detach, forgive, and GAL because I know that place better than anything else. I have lots of family and true friends there that can help me go through this. I know that move will help me achieve a positive outlook again which I will need to move forward with our new situation.


M 30
W 31
S8 and S6
M 7 T 13
D-Day Mid December 2014
EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014

Help needed:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2550514#Post2550514