Planning a trip for next year for son 16th.
Son wants his dad to join us.
I told H in front of son of our plans, H said nothing.
The cruise will b next year, but I will make deposits in May.

Do I ask H if he wants to come or just let it go since he said nothing when asked the first time if he was interested?
And right now I'm not really interested in H going not with the way our M is at this time.

Do I ask H again? This is something son wants. But son is also ok if H does not go...I told him H does not really like cruising?

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW