Being deceived by WAW, in need of some coaching

[skr4luv]

Wonka, can you please elaborate your statement:
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Wrong answer.
You don't run away like a whipped dog with it's tail between the
legs. Don't go all wet noodle on your W. NOW is the time to state
your boundary in no uncertain terms.
""""

I stated my reason for leaving in order to heal,in
my reply to twinmom, two posts above.

Also lets say, I would stay and get the kids and ask W to leave.
I know she will move in with OM. That move will only enable her
A even more.
Basically she will get what she wants. She'll have me here,
taking care of the kids. While she can live with OM for free,
she has to pay him with pleasure. I read that a while ago on her phone.
Once that happens, I see no way of me wanting to reconcile with
her in the future, even if her R with OM fall apart and she comes back begging.