Reality is my middle name but maybe it should have been independence?

H wrote my atty yesterday to see if the lawsuit was dismissed after H signed the separation agreement. He avoided doing anything for months but now H takes care of business. I guess he's making plans as he moves to OW's city in a few weeks. Gosh that still stings but I have boundaries now -- the house, alimony, child support. I have a full time job and am starting a new chapter. I told H I love him enough to let him go and now I have to love me enough to follow through on that promise with my heart and my head.

Going to be alone this weekend. Not dreading it and not sure why the shift? I am grateful for it though - a little acceptance is a good thing.

Last edited by 123Gwen; 03/27/15 09:36 AM.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou