Hi Complex

Sounds like you are doing great. And I was pleased to read about your progress - until the last two paras - all about W and needing a game plan...

I would forget all that. The more you seek a game plan, the more you stay attached, looking for the magic thing that will turn everything. No, I think you just need to keep the forward momentum with all the other stuff and maintain pleasant busy upbeat (not OTT) and so on with your W. I would stop looking for anything else. Remember actions not words, and your volunteering, busy at work, working out, school success and new friends are what will do the 'talking' to your W.

Less talk....keep the forward momentum on the action I say....Good for you :-)


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus