Being deceived by WAW, in need of some coaching

[skr4luv]

You think LRT involves not being a father except sending some cash?

Ok........... Go back and read DR and DB'ing...... You have TOTALLY missed the concepts.

I don't know the true definition of LRT as I haven't read the books yet.
I ordered them last week and I should get them soon.
One thing is for sure, I will never leave my kids. If we are going to separate, I want to have the kids under my roof to teach them real honest values.
The thing is this situation is burning me out mentally and physically. When my W used to have sleep overs at the OMs place, I was with the kids at home. They were talking to me but I wasn't really there, if you know what I mean. If we ever decide to separate, then healing is crucial in order to move forward. I'm sure the healing process will be 100 times
slower if I stay here in this environment, where I hardly know anyone (we just recently moved here) and keep working a very demanding job that often requires me to work overtime.

I know when I leave I will recover and come back with a positive outlook and energy to handle this situation the right way. And with the technology these days, I'll be able to
speak and see my kids everyday. I know it's far from ideal, but I have to play with the cards i've been given.