I see what you are saying. I was talking to my mom tonight about this very thing. My mom said that if she were to come back, she needed to be all in on the M and her changes. I said to my mom, if simply she were to say she wanted back in, I know she would do what is needed to make it work, because that's the true character of my W.
Thanks for that tidbit, it was a good point to make me look at the positives of that trait in her.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)