The struggle is that I've known W long enough that when she sets her mind to do something, she'll usually see it through.
You're talking about her wedding vows, right?
I'm always amused by LBS who claim that their WAS is too stubborn, proud or never change her/his mind. The simple fact that they are here to write this sentence contradicts it.
Believe me, I have the same kind of thoughts. In my case, I expect that my WW has such a strong fear of rejection that she'll never dare ask for R for fear that I will reject her (which puts me in a bind since I can't pursue). Bah, what do I really know? It's not worth worrying about. Also, our mind seems to rush to the most pessimistic scenario, so it's not even realistic. Let time run its course or, as you wrote and did, hand it to a Higher Power.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
