This started not so good with the sex, then peaked real good when you told her to leave the house, but ended with a bit of a downer when you said that you'd let her stay at the house again, though not in the MBR.
You are absolutely right when you say that you need some distance from her in order to detach. It has done wonders for me. I'm in a much better place since I even cut off the email communications beyond the kids. I stopped following WW on social media too. Don't underestimate how much good this can do to you.
I don't understand why you'd let her stay at the house again. Can you clarify? Is it to be Nice?
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.