Sounds good. All successful sitches go through a phase of genuine detachment, it seems. Also, I find your sitch promising in general and have for a long time. Your W seems lost and have little ground for the S, which should hit her at some point.
As you know, these things easily take 12-24 months, so don't read too much into now and set your sights on the long term. Remember that this might just be a short window in your life where you'll be without a life partner, so find ways to make the most of it.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
