Separated for 5 months and then W DB

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I went on a date almost two weeks ago, with no Intension I bumped into a former work colleague of my W while out. Just over a week later W left the OM and ended the A but... I dont know if that was purely due to the date as I did also find rock solid evidence of the A and shocking things that were said between them. They broke agreed rules so I confronted on Saturday last.

Honestly I think the dating thing is very risky, but tbh I would suggest at least making yourself attractive and meeting female friends and perhaps allowing your W to know that you had a great time and how friendly they all were! Etc... Dating could be seen as a point of no return by your W so tread careful x