Are you referring to whether or not you should date? I can tell you right now that going out and dating someone doesn't always attract the WAS back. I don't know what "research" you've done but the majority of the time it doesn't.
It really does depend on the individual.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.