Thank you for all your responses, much appreciated.
Originally Posted By: Cadet
Have you read all the links that I gave you yet?
Yes I have. I have been reading this forum since Jan 2015. It has been very helpful, thank you.
I am new to these forums but I have been divorce busting since November 2014. I started this arduous journey with a very insightful book called 'stop your divorce' by Homer Simpson. He gives great insight to the chaos I was experiencing. Has anyone else read it? What did you think? Read DB in Jan 2015 and the theory is essentially the same. One thing [censored] lacks is what to do when and if the tide turns in your favour. DB does, which I hope to implement one day.
One thing [censored] strongly suggests is too immediately start dating other people when your S BDs. Not sleep with them or fall in love with them but merely follow the old adage that everyone wants what they can't have. From my extensive research and interviews with divorcees, this seems to be accurate. Every WAS on this forum that then became an LBS has said the exact same thing, begging stopped and he/she moved on and met someone else and now I want them back. Divorcees I have interviewed said similar things; had my LBS started dating that would have devastated me.
At this point, I feel I have nothing to lose implementing this strategy and everything to gain. Does anyone have any insight on this. It would be highly appreciated.
