Rysin, I hope the talk with your W goes okay, and you can agree a way forward on everything. I think if you can avoid a 'feelings' talk, that would be best. She's actively in an A at the moment, so it's going to be a cheeseless tunnel for sure.
Validation is the best way to go I think - and of course - Yes, this is a difficult thing for both of us. We'll get through it....
Good luck to you Rysin. I'm often inspired by your sitch and think you handle things with lots of confidence and self control :-)
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
